Between the two parents, the mothers are the ones who mostly give advice to their kids when they have problems since they are the one who are always there since the fathers are normally the one who are working. They say that nothing can be compared to a mother’s love. Motherhood they say is the greatest and noblest job on earth. Now, if there is an advice that comes with so much love and care, that would be the mother’s advice. In our daily lives as we grow old, we usually hear a never ending motherly advice from our mothers. But not all the time we may agree to their advices and we get offended by it especially if we are on the age of adolescence. That is the stage where we think we are always right and that we don’t listen to the counsel and advices of our parents. We would normally disobey them and rebel against them. However, the sincerity of the motherly advice depends on how it is delivered. There are mothers are insensitive that they are not aware that they are already offending their children with their advices. Now, as a mother, how can you give advice to your children without offending them?
Let me share to you my personal experience with my mother because for the record, I was never offended with the advices that my mother has told me. Instead, I felt more loved and cared to by my mother. To be offended is a choice. Do you want to know how my mother would advice us without offending us? Simple, in case that we made mistakes, she will never embarrass us in front of other people. But instead, he will call us and bring us inside the room and will talk to us in a low tone of voice. Before she will scold us, she will ask what happened and what made us do it. if she finds out that it’s our fault, that’s the time that she will scold us and advice us with the things that we should and should not do.
If you ask me, I would prefer an advice where you talk about it privately. The advices of your mother are for your own good. In case there are some disagreement between your ideas, try to open it up and talk about and try to meet half ways. No mother wants something bad for her children. They always want what’s best for their children.